Sungat Arynov

Sungat Arynov

Technical Director

Eternal Truths: Parables for Life

1. The Parable of the Blind Man at the Crossroads

A man urgently needed to reach a neighboring village by an important road. But at the crossroads sat a blind old man, begging each traveler: "Be careful! Do not go this way! I am blind, but I hear: there is a landslide and an abyss around the bend!"
But the traveler was learned and proud. He looked at the old man in the dirt and thought: "What can this unfortunate man know? I can see for myself."
And he went down the road. He almost fell into the abyss, for the landslide was hidden by bushes.

He returned, full of fear and dirt, and sat down next to the blind man.
- Forgive me, old man. I did not believe you because you are blind.
- Precisely because I am blind, - replied the old man, - I closed my eyes to how the road looks and began to listen to how it sounds. I heard the echo from the void beneath it and the rustle of crumbling stones. You only looked and saw the familiar path.

Then the traveler realized his mistake. He not only did not help the old man - he refused to accept his gift, given through his own weakness.

Moral: True knowledge often requires "epistemic humility" - the recognition that another, even one who seems weak or insignificant, may see (or hear) the truth that you miss.

2. The Parable of the Two Masons and the Broken Pitcher

Two masons were building a wall around a garden where grapevines grew, laden with ripe clusters. The heat was such that the stone burned their hands. Nearby, in the shade of a cypress, stood a clay pitcher with water - their common supply for the entire day of work.

The first mason, mighty and angry, went for a new load of stones. The second, less experienced, reached for the water but slipped on the gravel and hit the pitcher. The vessel fell and broke, and the precious moisture instantly soaked into the thirsty, scorching earth.

The first mason returned and saw this. Anger clouded his mind.
- You have doomed us both! - he shouted, grabbing the guilty one by the clothes. - You deprived us of drink! You will no longer be in our craft! You will pay for this!

An elder passing by approached them. He saw the broken pitcher, the dry earth, the anger of one, and the despair of the other.

And he said to the angry one:
- You are right. He made a mistake. Justice demands compensation. But answer me: will your anger return the water? No. It will only burn the last strength left in your throat. You are strong. Is strength given to you to build or to destroy?

He pointed to the grapevines behind the unfinished wall.
- Justice says: "He is guilty." But wisdom asks: "What is more important now - punishment or salvation?" Go, pluck two clusters. Squeeze the juice into this cup. So you both will quench your thirst now and save strength to fix the matter.

Ashamed, the angry mason did so. They quenched their thirst, and clarity returned to them.

Then the elder said:
- Now about the wall. He must compensate for the damage. But if you drive him away, who will help you finish it? You will do the work of two alone. Justice says: "He must work." Mercy says: "But you must teach him to be more careful, not just force him." Stand and build together. And at noon, he alone will go to the well and bring a new pitcher of water - alone, under the scorching sun, to remember the cost of the mistake and the cost of water.

So they did. And the wall was completed, and the guilty one learned caution, and the angry one - mercy.

Moral: Justice without wisdom is blind. First, eliminate the consequences of harm and preserve what can still be saved, and only then restore justice in a way that does not cripple but teaches and corrects. Mercy comes after, but not instead.

3. The Parable of the Village Council

In one village, the well dried up. A council gathered.
The strongest young man said: "I will go down and clear the blockage!" The elder replied: "No. Your strength is needed to hold the rope of the one who will descend."
The wisest woman said: "I know spells to summon water!" The elder replied: "No. Your wisdom is needed to determine where to dig, by the moss and plants."
The nimblest boy shouted: "I am small, I can squeeze through the crack!" The elder replied: "No. Your nimbleness is needed to quickly run and deliver messages."

Then everyone asked: "Who will go down?"
The elder pointed to a silent man who was repairing his tools.
- He. Because he knows the structure of the well, he dug it with his father. He has the knowledge and the right to do it. Our task is to give him everything he needs for the work: strength, advice, and help. It is not for us, the strong and wise, to do his work, but for him - not to do ours.

And the man descended, tied with a rope held by the strong, with the advice of the wise on where to dig, and the boy ran and brought him water and food. And by evening, clean water filled the well again.

Moral: Subsidiarity. Solve problems at the lowest competent level. Do not do for another what he can and should do himself. Your role is not to replace him, but to provide support and assistance for his mission.

4. The Parable of the Garden and the Wall

A man cultivated a beautiful garden. He worked on it for many years, and the garden became his pride. To protect his creation from wild animals and prying eyes, he built a high, solid wall around the garden without a single gate.

Years passed. The garden remained beautiful, but the man inside it became increasingly lonely, and life grew bitter. He could admire only his roses, but no longer saw the mountains on the horizon, heard the river's noise, or felt the wind carrying the scents of distant fields.

One day a traveler passed by. Tired, he sat by the wall and sang a sad song about longing for home. Hearing the song, the garden owner shouted from behind the wall:
- Go away! This is my place! You disturb my peace!

The traveler left. And the garden owner realized for the first time that his perfect garden had become his prison. He protected his property but isolated himself from the world, violating the law of humanity - to be part of the whole.

Moral: Any protection must be reasonable. While shielding yourself from evil, do not build a wall between yourself and the world, or you will preserve property but lose humanity. True reliability is not in walls, but in connections.

5. The Parable of the Three Firekeepers

In one village, there was a large communal fire, guarded in turns by three keepers.


The first was honest and stern. He watched closely to ensure no one came too close to the fire or took even a single ember. But when a traveler asked for a bit of fire for his lantern to reach home in the dark, the keeper replied: "No. The fire is communal, and I cannot divide it."


The second was kind and gentle. He allowed everyone to take embers, saying: "The fire belongs to everyone!" Soon everyone carried their own ember, the fire weakened and began to die, and people, scattered in their corners, froze again in solitude.


The third keeper understood the matter differently. He also did not allow the fire to be scattered into embers. But when someone asked for fire, he did not give an ember - he lit a new torch from the large fire and handed it to the one asking.


And soon around the main fire, many small fires were lit. The whole village was illuminated, and everyone was warm, and the large fire only burned brighter from the shared warmth.

Moral: This is how to manage power, knowledge, and authority (amanat). You cannot divide and squander them (like the second keeper), but you also cannot lock them within yourself (like the first). True wisdom is in multiplication: sharing not the resource, but its benefit, igniting new "fires" without detriment to the main source.

6. The Parable of the Map and the Terrain

Two travelers were walking through an unfamiliar valley. One had an old but very detailed map, which he reverently studied at every stop. The other had no map, but he carefully observed his surroundings: the positions of the stars, the moss on the trees, the behavior of the birds.

There must be a stream here, - the first confidently said, pointing to the map. - And a bridge over it.
But when they arrived, the stream had long carved a new course, and the bridge had rotted and collapsed.

The traveler with the map sat on a stone in confusion and sadness. He could not move further because his map turned out to be false.
The second traveler said:
- I also saw this stream on the map. But I look not at the map, but at the ground. I see that the willow grows not where your bridge is drawn, but over there. So, the water is there now. Come, I'll show you where to ford.

Moral: This is a parable about epistemic humility. A map (any ideology, doctrine, plan) is just a model of reality. It can become outdated. If you blindly trust the map more than the reality before your eyes, you will get lost. Truth is not in blindly following a plan, but in constant attention to life itself and readiness to adjust your path.

7. The Parable of Silence and Noise

In one city lived a sage whom people visited for advice. But he gave only one piece of advice: he silently approached a large bell hanging by his house and struck it once.
The loud sound deafened the visitor, and in the ensuing silence, the sage asked: "What did you hear now?"
People were puzzled. One said: "I heard silence." Another: "I heard ringing in my ears." A third: "I heard the rustling of leaves now that the bell has stopped."

One day a young man, full of anger at his offender, came. He wanted to ask how to take revenge.
The sage, as usual, struck the bell. When the loud sound ceased, in the silence, the young man heard his own heart beating with rage.
- Well? — asked the sage.
- I heard my anger, — the young man admitted.
- The bell is your first impulse, your noisy anger, - said the old man. - It is loud but blind and quickly fades. And in the silence after it, the truth speaks. You hear now only your anger. But wait. Let the noise settle. And then you will hear the answer that was hidden from you by its own loudness.

The young man sat and was silent for a long time, listening. And through the receding anger, he heard something else: the fatigue from hatred and the quiet voice of reason, suggesting a path of correction, not revenge.

Moral: This principle is the basis of the "Pause" in the DRP-5 protocol and any reasonable action. Before acting in anger or spreading information, create a "silence after the bell." Stop. Listen to what remains when the first shock subsides. Truth often appears not in noise, but in the silence that follows it.

8. The Parable of the Bridge and the Ford

Two villages lived on opposite sides of a turbulent river. The people of one village, where there were skilled engineers, built a high and strong bridge. They placed guards at the bridge and charged a toll for crossing, allowing only those who could pay.
The people of the other village, poor but wise, could not build a bridge. But they studied the river from generation to generation. They knew all the fords, all the dangerous places, all the paths where one could step without being swept away by the current.

One day a great flood occurred. The mighty bridge was swept away by the power of the waters. The village of engineers was in despair: their main asset and source of income had disappeared, and they did not know the river.
Then the elder of the poor village sent a messenger to say:
- We cannot build a bridge. But we can lead your elders, women, and children through the fords we know. We will share with you the knowledge of the paths.

The engineers, having lost their complex strength, were forced to accept simple help. And then they understood the difference.
The bridge is strength concentrated in one place and available only to the chosen. But the knowledge of the ford is strength distributed among many and ready to serve.

Moral: This is a parable about subsidiarity and different types of strength. The true reliability of a system is not in creating a single centralized, vulnerable, and elitist structure ("bridge"), but in developing many local, flexible, and accessible competencies ("knowledge of the fords"). Strength that belongs to all and serves all is stronger than the mightiest but single support.

9. The Parable of the Two Carvers

Two brother carvers received an order from the ruler: to carve a statue for the city square representing justice.

  • The elder brother was a virtuoso. He took perfect, expensive black wood. For a month he polished it to a mirror shine, carved perfect facial features, and elegant folds of clothing. The statue dazzled with beauty. But he did it not out of love for art, but out of pride and desire for reward. In his heart, he despised both the ruler and the people who would look at this statue.

  • The younger brother was less skilled. He took a simple, rough piece of light oak with knots. He worked slowly, putting thoughts into the statue that truth and justice can be harsh but honest, like this oak. He thought of the people who would see the statue and wanted it to give them hope.

On the day of the statue's presentation, everyone gasped in admiration at the elder brother's work. The younger brother's statue looked simple and even rough in comparison.

But years passed. The perfectly polished black wood became covered with dust, every scratch visible on its shine, birds spoiled it. It required constant cleaning and care, and in people's hearts, it remained cold and alien.

The simple oak statue of the younger brother, under rain and sun, aged nobly. It darkened, revealing the beautiful grain of the wood. People could approach and touch its warm surface without fear of damage. It became beloved, a part of the city. In its simple features, people saw strength and truth.

And then everyone understood: the first statue was beautiful only on the surface, while the second was beautiful in essence. The outer polish of the first eventually faded, revealing emptiness. The stern honesty of the second eventually revealed its true beauty.

Moral: Do not judge things (and people) only by appearance. Skillful but deceitful and prideful work will not withstand the test of time. But simple, honest work done with a good heart will only get better. Essence is more important than form.

10. The Parable of the Well

In one village, there was a well with the purest water in the world. People cherished it, and life in the village was happy. But one day the water was spoiled. It became bitter and murky.

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